tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-91773361954454397522024-02-21T15:16:43.221+08:00The blue sky..path to Him...Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-39237781448444592112011-10-25T20:15:00.002+08:002011-10-25T20:25:09.097+08:00put the glass down...^^<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDlItuJfNjiZEsX4XXDR_Wz6miXrGmxqc4rohhrtQnxGl67Fp7izEnF3Xjh537A-07rQM-Pri2LocCTMD3csHWm3ZFoKzvhyphenhyphenM5iVMMDQD1CQwsPoVJoUUVCZD-HOSYT0aAplAufqp2G9Z2/s1600/glass" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 194px; height: 259px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDlItuJfNjiZEsX4XXDR_Wz6miXrGmxqc4rohhrtQnxGl67Fp7izEnF3Xjh537A-07rQM-Pri2LocCTMD3csHWm3ZFoKzvhyphenhyphenM5iVMMDQD1CQwsPoVJoUUVCZD-HOSYT0aAplAufqp2G9Z2/s400/glass" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667404751142818082" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: medium; "><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: medium; "><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: medium; "><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: medium; ">Assalamualaikum...wah, it is a long time since march 2011 I do not write anything.. Just update my malay blog, until I forget to update "The Blue Sky". I miss to write in English.. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >So, my first post after 7 months is "put the glass down".. ^^ hope we can get the value of this short story..I start with: </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >A professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see and asked the students, 'How much do you think this glass weighs?'</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><a href="http://www.ezsoftech.com/stories/mis21.asp"></a>'50 gms!'... '100 gms!'... '125 gms' ... the students answered.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'I really don't know unless I weigh it,' said the professor, 'but, my question is: What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?'</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'Nothing' the students said.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'Ok! What would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?' the professor asked.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'Your arm would begin to ache', said one of the students.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'You are right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?'</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'Your arm could go numb, you might have severe muscle stress and paralysis and have to go to hospital for sure!' ventured another student; and all the students laughed.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'Very good. But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?' asked the professor.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'No'</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'Then what caused the arm ache and the muscle stress?' The students were puzzled.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'Put the glass down!' said one of the students.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'Exactly!' said the professor. 'Life's problems are something like this. Hold it for a few minutes in your head and they seem okay. Think of them for a long time and they begin to ache. Hold it even longer and they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything'.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >'It's important to think of the challenges (problems) in your life, but EVEN MORE IMPORTANT is to have trust in Allah (SWT) and to 'put them down' at the end of every day before you go to sleep. That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh and strong and can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!'</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >So, as it becomes time for you to leave office today, Remember friend to 'PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY' and have tranquility by putting trust in Almighty Allah (SWT).</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >Noble Qur'an says: "He it is who sent down tranquility into the hearts of the believers that they might have more faith added to their faith". (48:4) Tranquility is sign of strong faith while worries and stress is sign of weak faith.</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >Tell to your mind every day before you go to sleep: "YAA AYYATUHAN NAFSUL MUTMAINNAH, IRJI'II ILAA RABBIKI RADHIYATAN MARDHIYYAH, FADKHULII FII IBAADII WADKHULII JANNATII". (Al-Fajr 89:27-30)</span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >"O soul that is at rest satisfied. Return to your Lord well-pleased (with Him), well-pleasing (Him). So, enter among My servants, and enter into my Paradise" Noble Qur'an.</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >p/s: enjoy each moment without forgetting Him. Don't hold your problems..It will caused you stress.. be happy dear! (^_^) </span></p></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-1741037901917903502011-03-03T00:39:00.002+08:002011-03-03T00:52:36.591+08:00coming back! (^_^)<div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px; ">in the name of Allah Most Gracious and the Most Merciful..</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px; ">alhamdullilah, with His blessing, I'm still here, smiling and never give up and keep on going.. even sometimes, life seem so hard but always remember, we have Him..He always be there for us..</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;">last 28th February, it was our last day in BeST programme 2011. we might see each other on our graduation day maybe in June 2011. alhamdullilah, so many experiences that I have learned from them.. Allah gives me opportunities to see and learn from all my friends in BeST Programme.. It is very valuable for me.. Thank You Ya Allah...</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;">I stop writing for February 2011.. and now I start it again in March..(^_^) February was a busy month for us as BeST trainee.. business plan, financial plan, think thank 2011 competition and many more..wow, it was stressful. but now it's nice to remember.. and on 28th Feb, my group "The Chosen One" won one of the category.. Alhamdullilah.. It was our victory.. thank you dear friends.. and Ya Allah, Thank You..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;">oraitz, have to go.. see ya! </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;">may Allah bless all of us and be happy always.. assalamualaikum..(^_^)</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;"> </span></span></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-15540947423075835442011-01-11T21:06:00.003+08:002011-01-11T21:56:01.416+08:00Dr. Roland Xavier - make it simple and easy!<div style="text-align: justify;">in the name of Allah Most Gracious and the Most Merciful..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"how are you today?" usually we will reply, "I'm fine" but now, change it..please answer " <span class="Apple-style-span" >I feel brand new"</span>. and when they ask, "are you ready?" answer, <span class="Apple-style-span" >" I am born ready"</span>. words and intonation play roles in boosting your spirit early in the morning. And <span class="Apple-style-span" >SMILE! =)</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">last Friday, 7th Jan we were discussing a case study about "Nothing unique to Offer". It is all about George Vasquez who wants to open a pizzeria near the local university. The problem is the area has 3 pizza enterprises already and each of them has their strong point and uniqueness. So our job was to consult him and give him some advises. Each group came out with some solutions. And some of them were good and some must be improved. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">In the way to build a business, we must know the market tread, customer need and serendipity. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">There are several ideas of sources for business idea such as:</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>1. You have to examine your own skill set for business idea. Don't discount yourself. </b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>2. keep up with current issue and be ready to take advantage of business opportunities. </b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>3. invent a new product or services</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>4. add value to an existing product </b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>5. investigate other markets outside of Malaysia</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>6. improve an existing product or service</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>7. get on the bandwagon</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">beside this, Dr Roland also taught us about NABC</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >N- NEED ( the important customer and market need)</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >A- APPROACH (a unique,compelling approach)</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >B- BENEFITS (the customer value)</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >C- COMPETITION or alternative </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">before starting up your business, these are the aspects must be considered.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">So,good luck! see ya!</div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-65761890415581556602011-01-10T22:18:00.002+08:002011-01-10T22:39:15.102+08:00doodling.. =)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhd9YjBcJ-GjqGi3d9n16f0p6Eny93rCAT3By6J7pTY7YwAYGo45kN9CwMsFvaa8_SH7qEHosEkfq9SWvrKkPsm0mxkLKPXyC4kNDun3uDUU7Oka7GPOLcfVMwSWg1eKzjAttmGqANyPf06/s1600/DSC02031.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhd9YjBcJ-GjqGi3d9n16f0p6Eny93rCAT3By6J7pTY7YwAYGo45kN9CwMsFvaa8_SH7qEHosEkfq9SWvrKkPsm0mxkLKPXyC4kNDun3uDUU7Oka7GPOLcfVMwSWg1eKzjAttmGqANyPf06/s320/DSC02031.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560561775226236994" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Alhamdullilah, we meet again and have the chance to repent.. Allahuakbar... today post about doodling.. I miss my childhood.. we used to be very expressive and creative..But when we are getting older, we become too secretive and passive.. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">On 4th Jan, Prof asked us to doodling,just draw what ever in our mind. let your hand drive you.. And, THIS is my drawing.. I'm not sure why I drew it but all what I know is, this is myself. It represent my heart and attitude.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Actually, Prof said, this is one of the method of idea getting. some of them are using word association,career excursion, direct analogy and others.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">and we also can solve the problem through your drawing by eliminating some of the elements in your drawing such as black colour or block.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">so, try it.. maybe it will help you in your way. see ya!</div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-59909978491603873102011-01-02T21:53:00.001+08:002011-01-10T22:40:53.685+08:00cooking times with creativity!!<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Thanks to Allah, with His blessing and guidance, we are able to live our life happily and cheerfully.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">4 days with Prof <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Barjoyai</span>, it was awesome!! What the best thing about Prof, you don't condemn and encourage us to think creative. Even some of the ideas are not relevant, but he always trust us..This is the Principle.. <i><span class="Apple-style-span">"all wrong ideas are creative ideas and good ideas".</span></i> He planted it into our mind and now, we feel free to think about something that maybe out of the norm. BUT, as Muslim, we know what is allow and what is forbidden for us right? It is okay to be creative but please be creative in the way of <span class="Apple-style-span">ISLAM</span>. These are the activities that we have done with our beloved trainer.. =)</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEistGzMLx7VKIGOo043et6td9p-d0bdvk14RFaTYe0VnXwqYG-BPZRJmGpulW4PEmVZa96qUWnf2DNa1UJiWfus6Ly9RmDBciOPBoEKT-_-3wPDA8m9QC0RIFs8hCoUS-xLSUi5X6prWZ3-/s320/DSC02029.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560559776908536562" /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >After mix up all the ingredients, ready to put in the microwave..<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">ikkezo</span>!!( let's go)</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQnXLztX4z24FoXIhyphenhyphenaNrqGrSYPaQ3hxiIowHNlNP_V74ceCvktY1n9lR3ToiLMuyHyqZX3WNePg9XzkLQO4XrY8rB1nMOoK0ziSlVvWfu8ziEBzHAhWXzTefCGroJgJxxeHW8GTVqtdH3/s320/DSC02027.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560557857975014418" /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >we were excited preparing "<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">nasi</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">beriani</span>" in the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Beriani</span> Rice Cooker.. It is small container, but you can have instant "<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">nasi</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Beriani</span>" in less than 30 <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">mins</span>!!! wow, most of us will try it Prof. And it taste not bad.. =) smile friends!</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir8z06Y4drCTtmw5O6hen4NrG27uMxdu27IB-7ota4ibaqIKZy_g0xkiM1S7MrBZMX43L2DpcFHOgD0lTjY_gn0k5eK2uO5kgZ1vFZNZq0sqIf-eNG9F_53Ve84mFKnQX-_D9z664DiBVa/s320/DSC02022.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560556280174674434" /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >This is the bread factory@ maker..We made basic bread with this and it took about almost 4 Hours! And the best thing about thing device is we can choose type of bread that we want.. Most of us never seen it and its great!</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-60635736914385209632011-01-02T17:26:00.009+08:002011-01-02T17:53:08.401+08:00negotiation and you...<a style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtOwO8DBf3snCjkrjrzwImgMquTNNaiyi8i8QmnWnInzrJY8YIrJzrKZ8eL3UFVr8bUumnj0AntR8de34X5-QUisdon1nl90sHNbRaLJs6bZSgn0ejuTSFNQA4NNr6_hLeDPkyh5wAYIcl/s1600/b-9.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 215px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtOwO8DBf3snCjkrjrzwImgMquTNNaiyi8i8QmnWnInzrJY8YIrJzrKZ8eL3UFVr8bUumnj0AntR8de34X5-QUisdon1nl90sHNbRaLJs6bZSgn0ejuTSFNQA4NNr6_hLeDPkyh5wAYIcl/s320/b-9.jpg" alt="" 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Thumbs up!</span></span><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><p style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">According to the notes that given to us, first step before you want to negotiate, please get know the REAL you. Know your personality</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US"> (e</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">xtrovert or introvert), family background, and view towards challenges, failures and success. And also get know the parties that you want to negotiate. Gather the information about their culture and background. In real world, actually everybody negotiates. <span style=""> </span>Before we further on, what is <span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">NEGOTIATION</span>? Negotiation is "<span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">to discuss with the goal of finding terms of agreement.</span>" Unfortunately, nowadays, many people interpret negotiation as being the skill </span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">of persuading other people to accept their point of </span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">view. Is it? Answer it to yourself. </span></span></p><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><p style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">There are 2 primary types of negotiation. First is DI</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">STRIBUTIVE NEGOTIATION. It is known as fixed pie. Parties will compete over distribution of a fixed sum of value. In the real world of negotiations, two parties face off wit</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">h the goal of getting as much as possible. For example, the seller wants to go after the best price they can obtain, while the buyer wants to pay the lowest price to achieve the best bargain. It's really just good old plain haggling, just like playing a tug of war. In this type of negotiation</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">, information plays an important role. </span></span></p><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><p style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">There are several tips to seal this kind of negotiation whi</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">ch are:</span></span></p><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">Start of the right price</span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">Do not disclose significant information</span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">Know the information about the other parties</span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">Exploit what you learn about the other party in <span style=""> </span>setting your first dem</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">and </span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">Don’t overshoot </span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><p style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">Second type is INTEGRATIVE NEGOTIATION. Integrative means to join several parts into a whole. Conceptually, this implies some cooperation, or a joining of forces to achieve something together. It is usually involves a higher degree of</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US"> trust and a forming of a good relationship. Both parties want to achieve something which has value by getting what each wants. Ideally, it is a twofold process and it is often described as the win-win situation. Both parties will gained many advantages when they take a cooperative approach to mutual problem solving by using creative problem solving methods.</span></span></p><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><p style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">For sealing the integrative negotiation deal, y</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">ou should: </span></span></p><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""><span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;font-size:7pt;" > </span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">Provide significant info on their circumstances </span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""><span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;font-size:7pt;" > </span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">Explain why they want to make a deal</span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""><span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;font-size:7pt;" > </span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">Talk about the real inter</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">est and business constraints</span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""><span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;font-size:7pt;" > </span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">Reveal in general terms the preferences amon</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">g issues and options.</span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""><span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;font-size:7pt;" > </span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">Consider any additional capabilities or resources that m</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" lang="EN-US">ight meet other side interest </span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><ul style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""><span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;font-size:7pt;" > </span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">Use what learn to find creative options.</span></span></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </div><p style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family:arial;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="" 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alt="*" width="12" height="12" /><span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">- Getting the other side to the negotiation table </span></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Symbol;"><span style=""><img src="file:///C:/Users/User/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" width="12" height="12" /><span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> - </span></span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">Making a good start. For example, express respect for the other’s side experience and expertise.</span></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Symbol;"><span style=""><img src="file:///C:/Users/User/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" width="12" height="12" /><span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">- Establish the right tone</span></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Symbol;"><span style=""><img src="file:///C:/Users/User/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" width="12" height="12" /><span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">- Do active listening</span></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Symbol;"><span style=""><img src="file:///C:/Users/User/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" width="12" height="12" /><span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">- Close the deal</span></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Symbol;"><span style=""><img src="file:///C:/Users/User/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image001.gif" alt="*" width="12" height="12" /><span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="" lang="EN-US">- Frequently asked question.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="" lang="EN-US"><span style=""> </span>So, play well and keep practicing dear. Be an effective negotiator and win the best deal. But remember this, in Islamic perspective, it is not about winning the deal. It is useless if you win the situation by cheating or tricks. Be honest, and all we want is only “BARAQAH” from Him. He will lead us to right path. I end up my post with this prayer… </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="line-height: 115%;font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >“<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);">O Allah! Put affection amongst our hearts, set right our matters between ourselves, guide us to the ways of peace, save us from the darknesses towards the light, save us from all kinds of indecency; the apparent as well as the hidden, and give us barakah in our hearing, our seeing, our hearts, our spouses, our children, and turn in mercy upon us. Indeed You are the One who greatly accepts repentance, One who is repeatedly Merciful.” </span></span></strong><span style="line-height: 115%; color: rgb(51, 51, 255);font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >(Al- Hakim)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="line-height: 115%; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);font-size:10pt;" lang="EN-US" > </span></p><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHngVEUZZwfXl8Yw5SXQopZuaCznLK8gSvvah-RrxMnQHqcxZasLXckHml8Ty-Yfqsitsy_Pw6Cr0hE-OL3M5YLuJG3_stUUjkP-3LF1p-4WTPMZ1NNVdl4ynSoIvG1asGB18LEORrl3vX/s1600/b-salary_negotiation_shop_floor.jpg"><br /></a>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-50110843730983965302010-12-30T10:29:00.004+08:002010-12-30T10:39:03.529+08:00be CREATIVE!<div> <img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 296px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 125px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5556298474606383634" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2PdGIsKthXThbHycAsnGcbrNhlSTonw1b0VX5qqZQ_uU2pn64V-WrqTVLvXQvBx5ehtl0jVWL2hnJn-WeWALfWzfOZg8D2IoinTPhBrlEFtwIgTLiHdZ1KuGOPlRaKxYZiMy7TUA8w-TE/s320/c2.bmp" /><br /><br /><div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Bismillahirahmanirahim,</span></span><br /></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Alhamdulillah, we meet again. Thanks to Him, give us one more chance to ask His forgiveness and enjoy our life. Almost all the time we forgot to show our appreciation and grateful. First month end yesterday. After had been ‘brain washed’ by Madam Sita, Madam Liza and Miss Nani, my friends and I have come with new spirit in blogging. Sorry for not being such a good trainee. But I know we will try to improve. </span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Calibri;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US">Second module for second month in Best 2010</span></b><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US">. Today is our first day, learning about creativity and innovation with Prof. Barjoyai Bin Bardai. First thing that I have noticed today is every second, our mind keep thinking and make thousand of decisions without we realize it. It’s true. Second, do not judge too early cause you may kill the ideas of other person and make them down. <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">We were introduced about <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">IQ (intelligence), EQ (emotional), CQ (creativity), SQ (spiritual), and PQ (entrepreneurship)</b>. All these aspects must balance in ourselves. IQ has been inherited from parents but others you have develop by your own. For me, it is useless if you have high IQ, PQ, and CQ level but your EQ and SQ are low. You are superb with data and facts but when comes in dealing with feeling, you fail to face it wisely. </span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Our first topic is about creativity and innovation. At first, some of us thought that this topic was too heavy and suppress our mind. But actually not at all. We enjoy our class today. It is interesting when we know there are so many new inventions out there and sometimes it looks weird and out of norm. But actually, that is <span style="color:red;">CREATIVE</span>. Something that is out of context and some people may say that it’s impossible. </span></span><br /><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;"></span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">So, what is creativity? How we know that we are creative enough? The definition of creativity is the ability to discover new relationship, to look at subjects from new perspective and to form new combination from two or more concepts that already in the mind. During the process, mind will re-arrange and associate all the knowledge and experiences in new ways. It is process of blending of knowledge, imagination and evaluation.</span></span><br /></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">How about <span style="color:red;">innovation</span>? A convenient definition of innovation is the successful introduction of a new thing or method. It is also known as embodiment, combination, or synthesis of knowledge in valued new products. For example, Alexander Graham Bell<span style="color:red;"> </span>was the inventor of telephone, and after that, other people improved the design of telephone and the function. During that era, telephone was only used to voice call but now, there are video call, wiFi and many more. Alexander Graham Bell<span style="color:red;"> </span>was a creative person and the persons that improved his product were innovative. They upgrade the value of invention.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Calibri;"></span><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 251px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 161px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5556298264987283298" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIOiG-s4psPGFMRVXcfL0Z40t_k-Yr1zRH4dBaq0-aj1z4Sbm9IbQErq_2g2curB6C-Zhjw0y_JEuUYAcu3g3jaifIse2Bi61OXBC0QWEt8ta9vCMbwck3k20Fmnqzby1sd-c2-4xtBSXC/s320/imagesCATHKY7P.jpg" /><br /></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">But sometimes, when we try to be creative or in other word, being different from others and norm, people will call us weirdo, nerd or alien and look at us like we are criminal. Actually all this is based on the thinking paradigm. According to Edward De Bono, human being has developed their “logic bubble” in mind through experiences and knowledge. When they find some new things that are not install in their logic bubble, their will reject it. In this logic bubble, there are 5 aspects that are considered which are culture, way of life, basic perception, norms and regulations. This bubble is covered by EGO. It is important to have ego to have pride and self important but you have to control it. </span></span><br /></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">So, to be creative, you have to know the concept of creative thinking. The paradox in creative thinking is:<o:p></o:p></span></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; TEXT-INDENT: 35.4pt; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt 35.4pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">CREATIVE IDEAS = NEW IDEAS = WRONG IDEAS <o:p></o:p></span></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; TEXT-INDENT: 35.4pt; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt 35.4pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Hence, ALL NEW IDEAS = WRONG IDEAS = STRANGE IDEAS<o:p></o:p></span></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">All new ideas are wrong because it does not fit to logic base in our mind, and never been accepted before. And all new ideas are good ideas because it is basic spirit in creative thinking.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So, all new ideas are creative ideas.</span></span><br /><br /></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Today session made us open our mind. Don’t be afraid to be creative. Think out of box. People may laugh at you but we never know what will happen in future. Maybe you will the one that smile to them back. Who know? So, keep moving. Try your hard to contribute something to the world. <o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">May Allah bless us and see ya!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-56250701120999425322010-12-22T21:07:00.005+08:002010-12-22T21:47:31.105+08:00path to "destination"..go Khadijah!(^_^)<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJROAkIBrH6SS5KNm_6WUit2J6cKXC-GPbcPWvAmvC3yZgTNFQn0dee0GnuIVBqi5KP1GxQoxsU-Fkp-eZVenWRUdxtbMEe_IlWhjG6OM6PJKIBgS4xGD2POSd34IrJ_m7p_Dc15gfRXDY/s1600/images.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 275px; height: 183px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJROAkIBrH6SS5KNm_6WUit2J6cKXC-GPbcPWvAmvC3yZgTNFQn0dee0GnuIVBqi5KP1GxQoxsU-Fkp-eZVenWRUdxtbMEe_IlWhjG6OM6PJKIBgS4xGD2POSd34IrJ_m7p_Dc15gfRXDY/s320/images.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553500148560398242" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);font-size:85%;" >its a long journey to go..your may face many obstacles,challenges.. don't give up.Face it and ask His guidance. keep on your stride..and smile always!</span><br /><br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Bismillahirahmanirahim..alhamdullilah,I'm still here,keep moving and observing.. we are under same sky,searching for meaning of life. Mine,Alhamdullilah, I love You so much. everyday, new experience, new knowledge, new things. Interesting!</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Monday,is our mock interview. ops,quite scary..heee..actually,not too scary. Its a nice experience and memory to remember..thanks Mr. Abdullah..I will do it and learn more. Keep practicing until I can speak English fluently even in dream..hehehe.. Your advice will be always in my mind,insyaAllah.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Yesterday, I had present my topic, "Stress Management" during the public speaking session. Alhamdullilah, Mr Hisham said its good. Actually I think I can do better,insyaAllah. I'm little bit nervous at first,but after that, its went smooth. Thanks to all the Trainers. They teach me a very valuable skills and knowledge. But, I promise myself, that I will try the best next time..Thank you Mr. Hisham,you boost my confidence and spirit to try harder. I know I have to polish it and improve more. </span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Frankly, I really feel extremely grateful to Allah because He plan the best for me. Love to be here,knowing each other, learning and experiencing new things. Allah, thank you for give me the chance to enjoy my life. I know, life is sometime hard and make me cry, but I know, You always be here to consult me. This is my journey..all of us have our own path,we choose different ways but the final destination is SAME. We will meet there soon..See ya!! (^_^)</span><br /><br /><br /><br /></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-3125604534651037722010-12-14T21:45:00.007+08:002010-12-22T21:07:37.876+08:00Be the Best among The Best...<div>assalamualaikum, meet me again..alhamdullillah, thanks to Allah that we are given a opportunity to still alive and enjoy the world.<br /><br />last week, we had 4 sessions which are <strong>Report Writing </strong>(Madam Liza & Madam Farah), <strong>Powerful Presentation Skill</strong> ( Mr. Abdullah & Madam Rusilawati), <strong>Communication for Leaders</strong> (Prof. Syed Omar) and <strong>Grooming</strong> (Madam Leilanie).<br /><br />superb! really enjoy with all of them. In Report Writing session, Madam Liza and Madam Farah taught us how to write a appropriate project proposal and how to present it. It is quite heavy for us but we have to face it and learn it. In my opinion, it is not too difficult to present it but the most important it how you deliver your ideas to audiences and make them impressed with your proposal.<br /><br />During Powerful Presentation Skill session, now I know. The key word is "PRACTICE". If you want to be a good presenter or a public speaker, practice it more and frequent. You may face any difficulties,but face it bravely and keep on the efforts. Gambate Khadijah!<br /><br />Not all of us can be a leader and not many of us want to be a leader. But, I want to be a leader. I have my own goal to achieve in life and I know I will face my obstacles on my way to achieve it. It doesn't matter for me. As long as I'm still in the right way, I will proceed confidently. But I must always remember this. Ask Allah in what ever you want to do as a guide because He know better than us.<br /><br />Grooming!!! something that can make me feel like I want to make a transformation on my image. BUT, it is not because of you. Its because of my path that I have chosen. I just want to be look neat and smart. Not too beautiful because for me,it is subjective for us define beautiful. It is only a perception.<br /><br />okay,see ya next time! may Allah bless us and enjoy your life!</div><div> </div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5552680775407723218" style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 261px; height: 168px; text-align: center;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhx_7SodyRVzNLW0yQY0DWLeu3je7-nTYALLTnmgZFdxcFbDTWHu9ynWa6MI-Iwi78-P_vhzuPbc65iajekLVO1gYfr7fj4czfJFHkM7Y-5wu62gcDmpEg9uNXRO8UbPim0ul5sOJNVWeE/s320/nature.jpg" border="0" /><br /><div></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-81873735728561339782010-12-12T12:56:00.002+08:002010-12-12T13:20:14.812+08:002nd week in BeST.. GreAt!!!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1n_tJM8_Unzjuop0qqfxuVJN8K96kE_hmZ1ldspwRKG1X0VnrShqVw9eZymvOQNXkruJsUMxJqH2Cg3DcpedJ7ZhyCdtxqKrvLeSiAQ87bT0tNoFeH1bb3EH6Ai8qecCYqWHjUH7kcA81/s1600/thumbsup_000.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1n_tJM8_Unzjuop0qqfxuVJN8K96kE_hmZ1ldspwRKG1X0VnrShqVw9eZymvOQNXkruJsUMxJqH2Cg3DcpedJ7ZhyCdtxqKrvLeSiAQ87bT0tNoFeH1bb3EH6Ai8qecCYqWHjUH7kcA81/s320/thumbsup_000.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5549661133154500242" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" >Bismillahirahmanirahim..Alhamdullillah,praise to Allah..Thank You to Him for giving us chances to repent and His love.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >This 2nd week in BeST Programme open more and more my eyes. Being in this programme make me feel lucky and bless cause I know this is one of my opportunity to improve my skills and my "world". So that,I can move forward.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>8th December 2010, we met Mr.Hisham Karim and Miss Hanani Ahmad. Nice to know them. what a loving and cheerful person. Sharing their knowledge,skills and experience make us think more. In the Art Of Public Speaking session, they taught us how to perform and present a good and effective presentation. The key word that I can get is "PRACTICE MORE". In order to speak in front of public, you have to practice more. Making mistakes during the learning process is normal and the most important thing don't give up and find the value of life. thumbs Up Mr. Hisham and Miss Hanani.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Next day, in the session of Conducting Effective Meeting by Assoc. Prof Mohd Khir Ashari,one more new knowledge for us. An effective meeting should end with right and solid decision and also decide by the members. The meeting should also conducted efficient and effectively. Thank You Prof.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>we met again Madam Farahiyah and Madam Norliza. Relevant topic to us as a fresh graduates. Effective Resume and Cover Letter. we were so surprised when Madam Norliza told us this fact. " Company that receive our resume only take average 45 seconds to review our resume." speechless.... Reality that we have to face. so,it is essential for us to make our resume:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>N- Neat</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>A- Attractive</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>S- Simple</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" > <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>H- Honest</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >Thank you to both of you,Madam Liza and Madam Farah. I really appreciate it.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >2nd week in BeST,best!! May Allah bless all of us and be happy always.. </span></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-63105950950269071532010-12-06T14:38:00.004+08:002010-12-06T15:57:54.246+08:00How to Reach an Audience Through Blogging<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzBXXbkv7LAh4w-jbrDU5AjHk9U4DHTFfHWbWzcPnfsrTd3N58Kq46Zw_CJLFaciRzZN9gHs1xNZj8Hwzzfx691n2qLtC8JgvCvcczVK9_lF3NwTilkWOyOsiZ0I60Fuz2ADrohVEde_iw/s1600/blog.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547474691011633986" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 204px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 169px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzBXXbkv7LAh4w-jbrDU5AjHk9U4DHTFfHWbWzcPnfsrTd3N58Kq46Zw_CJLFaciRzZN9gHs1xNZj8Hwzzfx691n2qLtC8JgvCvcczVK9_lF3NwTilkWOyOsiZ0I60Fuz2ADrohVEde_iw/s320/blog.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div align="left"></div><br /><div align="left">Recently, blogging has become a trend among the people all over the country. They used blog as one of the medium in marketing, communication, expressing their ideas and thoughts and so on. For example, Ustaz Hasrizal has his own blog to express his ideas and opinions in Islam and in the same time, his followers gained new information and also open their mind to see life in other perspective. If you want to become like him, has a followers, readers and can help inspired people that read your blog, you may use these tips to improve your blog and get attention from other blogger. It is my personal opinion through my observation and experiences.<br /><br />As we know, human's eyes get more alert and attracted to images and colours. So that, for me, first thing I have to do is make my layout and blog template attractive and colourful. BUT, be careful with the colours that you have chosen. Make sure that the colour is not too dull or too bright and also the combinations of the colours are in right. Please arrange your images properly so that the readers can read your article in proper manner.<br /><br />Besides that, your may put your blog description. Readers will notice what your blog all about is. For example, in my blog, I used "the Path to Him" as my blog description. so that, when other blogger see it then they will know that most of my posts are about religion (ISLAM), motivation and passion in my journal to seek for His guidance. Blog description is essential for those who seeking of the followers and readers. It helps your reader to know you better.<br /><br />Have you gone through a blog with bombastic words or too much slang and at last, you didn't get the idea of the blogger? I've read it before. It's good and have nice environment. BUT, I'm sorry because I didn't get the whole idea. There was something I've missing out. I can conclude that, you may use some simple words to make your readers understand what you have written. For me, it is not only about the languages used but it also includes the way you speak out you ideas. If your words are superb but somehow your readers get the idea wrong, it’s useless.<br /><br />If you is a beginner, you don't have the followers, then please leave a comment to other blogger post. If you do so, the blogger can trace you back and follow you. Some of the blogger have added the chat box and make their blog as a relationship- builder. Actually it is a good thing about blog. You can make friends with other even from other country.<br /><br />Last but not least, make your post title attractive. Most of the readers become more eager to read your post if your title touched their heart. Same goes to me. I do love read post that sound good to me. As a conclusion, we can reach our audience if we can manage to make our post attractive and reader friendly. Interesting post and layouts also can help you to reach an audience through blogging. Thank you.<br /></div><br /><div align="justify"></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-53163741943985565942010-12-06T14:10:00.002+08:002010-12-06T14:31:44.069+08:00happiness...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGI0lOV3nEBqK_iSkoERO6AqZr8SrrNBzjg1bzro-WonilgLecXO2eGYvlvX__j9eD2re0QCDz_xijuzzRYpIz6TnysrXDdgnJ4lyws0Wm9R1YRo1eYfxd59lj5_9xkjrwtGhxKRY17UpT/s1600/thumbnailCAQVSTHD.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547453151122359314" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 160px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 120px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGI0lOV3nEBqK_iSkoERO6AqZr8SrrNBzjg1bzro-WonilgLecXO2eGYvlvX__j9eD2re0QCDz_xijuzzRYpIz6TnysrXDdgnJ4lyws0Wm9R1YRo1eYfxd59lj5_9xkjrwtGhxKRY17UpT/s320/thumbnailCAQVSTHD.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div align="center">what is happiness mean to you? </div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">Are you happy now?</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">when you're happy,you're going to smile,laugh and even your mood become in peace.. </div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">what is happiness for me...</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">happiness is more meaningful when my heart talk to Him,</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">near to Him and </div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">be blessed by remembering Him</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">by being happy...</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">it gives me strength I need,</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">teach me what the life means,</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">being more appreciateable and grateful person,</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">happiness never take me down </div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">happiness always make me feel good,</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">happiness make me think of Him,</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">All because of Him..</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-36491531809646332182010-12-06T11:32:00.000+08:002010-12-06T11:50:06.205+08:00change yourself or change the situation...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrAUckqHd_aYefMupnXkDWgpNUo_pvaZnpgGKjaS4GQd-DAUsw0JeZ66EkKkD4XyTlq8X0IW0AbbYN8JY8OyqcsDe3X_ZT5gMwTulnX_e-_jE8BoLGshQ4zHbnX4WR8nFgTvHc5wh_FSNq/s1600/path.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547411475791200978" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 160px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 120px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrAUckqHd_aYefMupnXkDWgpNUo_pvaZnpgGKjaS4GQd-DAUsw0JeZ66EkKkD4XyTlq8X0IW0AbbYN8JY8OyqcsDe3X_ZT5gMwTulnX_e-_jE8BoLGshQ4zHbnX4WR8nFgTvHc5wh_FSNq/s320/path.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>everyday,we face a lot of situations..some of them make us happy and there's also kind of situation make us feel bad..how we go through our day when we facing these kind of "drama"?</div><br /><div></div><br /><div align="center">"When we are no longer able to change a situation – we are challenged to change ourselves.’ Viktor Frankl..</div><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify">yup,that's it.. you're not strong enough to change the world and your surrounding but you can able to change you life and yourself to follow the enviroment..to change is to grow..when you decided to change, you actually decided to grow and move forward..</div><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify">keep on learning and observing your enviroment..take the positive site of the world and implement to yourself.. be nice and good learner...see it,take it...and also love it..but please,seek for His guidance so that you're in the right path..</div><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify"></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-72499279824239124912010-12-06T10:46:00.000+08:002010-12-06T10:58:20.193+08:00Thank You Allah<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkNjvoBl1Dlin_rOf8BBOLUxeLzuTxQFALUt21LdJcsgxthE6lHl3ORn8784y3me8jC5c4sy-2B_oblNWNN4pcB65vybyMmfhVrFrOZL4P20eUDAmcrSA8IPF8PnD-q3eiEn6CXdQ3UWGF/s1600/thumbnail.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547397885357485426" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 173px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 184px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkNjvoBl1Dlin_rOf8BBOLUxeLzuTxQFALUt21LdJcsgxthE6lHl3ORn8784y3me8jC5c4sy-2B_oblNWNN4pcB65vybyMmfhVrFrOZL4P20eUDAmcrSA8IPF8PnD-q3eiEn6CXdQ3UWGF/s320/thumbnail.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><br /><div>I was so far from you</div><br /><div>Yet to me you were always so close</div><br /><div>I wandered lost in the dark</div><br /><div>I closed my eyes toward the signs</div><br /><div>You put in my way</div><br /><div>I walked everyday</div><br /><div>Further and further away from you</div><br /><div>Ooooo Allah, you brought me home</div><br /><div>I thank You with every breath I take. </div><div><br />Alhamdulillah, Elhamdulillah</div><br /><div>All praises to Allah, All praises to Allah</div><br /><div>Alhamdulillah, Elhamdulillah</div><br /><div>All praises to Allah, All praises to Allah. </div><div><br />I never thought about</div><br /><div>All the things you have given to me</div><br /><div>I never thanked you once</div><br /><div>I was too proud to see the truth</div><br /><div>And prostrate to you</div><br /><div>Until I took the first step</div><br /><div>And that’s when you opened the doors for me</div><br /><div>Now Allah, I realized what I was missing</div><br /><div>By being far from you. </div><div><br />Alhamdulillah, Elhamdulillah</div><br /><div>All praises to Allah, All praises to Allah</div><br /><div>Alhamdulillah, Elhamdulillah</div><br /><div>All praises to Allah, All praises to Allah. </div><div><br />Allah, I wanna thank You</div><br /><div>I wanna thank you for all the things that you’ve done</div><br /><div>You’ve done for me through all my years I’ve been lost</div><br /><div>You guided me from all the ways that were wrong</div><br /><div>And did you give me hope </div><div><br />O Allah, I wanna thank you</div><br /><div>I wanna thank You for all the things that you’ve done</div><br /><div>You’ve done for me through all my years I’ve been lost</div><br /><div>You guided me from all the ways that were wrong</div><br /><div>I wanna thank You for bringing me home </div><div><br />Alhamdulillah, ElhamdulillahAll praises to Allah,</div><div> </div><div> All praises to AllahAlhamdulillah, Elhamdulillah</div><div> </div><div>All praises to Allah, All praises to Allah.</div><div><br />Artist: Maher Zain</div><br /><div>Album: Thank You Allah</div><br /><div>Copyright: Awakening Records 2009</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>*have you listen to this song..its touched my heart and make me think who am I and what have I done in my 22 years in this world...shame of me when many people move forward and make new improvement but me,still in the same place..its time for me to move on..keep on going Khadijah..you can do it!! </div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-3495021058521450972010-12-06T10:10:00.002+08:002010-12-06T11:01:30.002+08:00surat cinta dr Illahi..(^_*)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLoLuJQVnO3VkGuufPFLUwKONO_AUzxig83PxnUcwHqysaZvWkMsNmWur3lBc8YREKuK0bac_UMK1IEtXQa-SCKiWiXbaBGIYXrOWSeqeHEfkd4NcRBE-4RkKJ9VKDlxDF7hWbYVCFXLBh/s1600/thumbnailCA20TOO2.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547398985879593298" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 160px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 120px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLoLuJQVnO3VkGuufPFLUwKONO_AUzxig83PxnUcwHqysaZvWkMsNmWur3lBc8YREKuK0bac_UMK1IEtXQa-SCKiWiXbaBGIYXrOWSeqeHEfkd4NcRBE-4RkKJ9VKDlxDF7hWbYVCFXLBh/s320/thumbnailCA20TOO2.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"><strong>bila kita berhadapan dgn dunia,kita akn mengalami pelbagai ujian dan menyebab kan kita rasa lemah dan letih..pernah terfikir persoalan ni??</strong></span><br /><br />manusia: kenapa ujian seberat ni?<br />Dia: "Allah tidak akn membebani seseorang melainkan dengan kesanggupannya..(Al-Baqarah: 286)<br /><br />manusia: frust dan kecewa dgn dunia ni..<br />Dia: "Janganlah kamu bersikap lemah dan janganlah pula kamu bersedih hati padahal kamu adalah org-org yang paling tinggi darjatnya jika kamu beriman.." (al-Imran:139)<br /><br />manusia: kalau ada masalah dan sedih macam sekarang,apa yg patut saya buat?<br />Dia: " Dan mintalah pertolongan dgn jalan sabar dan mengerjakan solat. Sesungguhnya solat itu amatlah berat kecuali bagi org2 yg khusyuk.."(Al-Baqarah:45)<br /><br />manusia: setelah menjalani semua ujian dunia ni,apa yang saya akan dapat?<br />Dia: "Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli daripada org2 mukmin diri,harta mereka dgn memberikan syurga untuk mereka" (At-Taubah: 111)<br /><br />manusia: saya sgt stress dan tak mampu bertahan!!<br />Dia: " dan janganlah kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah.Sesungguhnya tiada yg berputus asa dari rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yg kafir" (Yussuf: 87)<br /><br />everything is there in Al-Quran..please searching for it and you will get your answer..keep on searching dear...(^_^)</div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-87008311665556358212010-12-06T09:44:00.001+08:002010-12-06T10:09:55.449+08:00"persoalan sebelum bermula"<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjw3-ukjv7puFYhEXfcV4U4552R03PcNidalFeC9pcAE-3X2gF4psEDqIcMXQkFdneaMBnFw22ryQHhiYyaqSYfdd9jSIQ63n99BFP-J6D34DjBbG_blF7Exq_sAUlinHD4p9E81IK7DLPG/s1600/7d876c43258928ad82c9707c790db63b-d33x03t.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547383464516551426" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 225px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjw3-ukjv7puFYhEXfcV4U4552R03PcNidalFeC9pcAE-3X2gF4psEDqIcMXQkFdneaMBnFw22ryQHhiYyaqSYfdd9jSIQ63n99BFP-J6D34DjBbG_blF7Exq_sAUlinHD4p9E81IK7DLPG/s320/7d876c43258928ad82c9707c790db63b-d33x03t.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify">Bismillahirahmanirahimm..</div><br /><div align="justify">subhanAllah...Alhamdullillah..Allahuakbar..</div><br /><div align="justify">masih bernafas dan mampu tersenyum serta bersyukur..wahai diri,beruntungnya kamu masih hidup dalam iman dan diberi peluang utk memperbaiki amal mu..seperti yg kite sedari..</div><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="center"><strong>today is last day of 1431 H..</strong></div><br /><div align="center"><strong></strong></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#ff0000;">PLEASE ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS HONESTLY</span>..</div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;">sudah berapa tahun kita hidup di atas muka bumi?</span></div><br /><div align="center"><br /><span style="color:#009900;">Bagaimanakah hubungan kita dengan Allah?</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;"></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;">Sistem hidup apakah yang kita gunakan? </span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;"></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;">Peraturan hidup manakah yang kita pakai?</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;"></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;">Akhlak siapakah yang kita ambil menjadi turutan?</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;"></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#009900;">Tatacara hidup manakah yang kita jadikan pedoman?</span></div><br /><div align="center"><br /><span style="color:#3366ff;"><strong>Tanya diri. Tanya diri.</strong></span> </div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center"><strong>Apakah dari tahun ke tahun kita semakin dekat dengan Allah? </strong></div><br /><div align="center"><strong></strong></div><br /><div align="center"><strong>Apakah dari tahun ke tahun kita semakin taat kepadaNya?</strong></div><br /><div align="center"><strong></strong></div><br /><div align="center"><strong>Apakah dari tahun ke tahun kita semakin sedar akan hakikat keperluan kita untuk tunduk kepadaNya?</strong></div><br /><div align="center"></div><br /><div align="center">have you get your answer? lihat lah diri..sebentar lagi sebelum maghrib,kita akn membaca doa akhir tahun..dan akan mulakan tahun baru dgn doa awal tahun..tapi,apakah kita sudah bersedia dgn strategi utk melalui tahun baru dgn lebih tabah,sabar dan cekal..saya tinggalkan kalian dgn firman Allah: </div><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="center">“<span style="font-size:85%;color:#ff6600;">Belum sampaikah lagi masanya bagi orang-orang yang beriman, untuk khusyuk hati mereka mematuhi peringatan dan pengajaran Allah serta mematuhi kebenaran (Al-Quran) yang diturunkan (kepada mereka)? Dan janganlah pula mereka menjadi seperti orang-orang yang telah diberikan Kitab sebelum mereka, setelah orang-orang itu melalui masa yang lanjut maka hati mereka menjadi keras, dan banyak di antaranya orang-orang yang fasik - derhaka.” Surah Al-Hadid ayat 16.</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:85%;color:#ff6600;"></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:85%;color:#333333;">berfikir lah dgn mata hati yg disinari dgn cahaya keimanan...</span></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-36552505514452195752010-12-03T16:23:00.003+08:002010-12-03T16:42:32.699+08:00bila waktu telah berakhir...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPuDaremdTruJNUER7gWo78U4ZylFRYsDXzadf2VSGNIGGJDYsfgysh6WpE2vm3tNrfQhT42-mnwfS6-UCJNQnZace11IGWR_XKm6u_cL95AcQIrEAvZEo7mZaxYrPhXpXcW2cp5Z3OfZF/s1600/demi_masa.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5546370706405475074" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPuDaremdTruJNUER7gWo78U4ZylFRYsDXzadf2VSGNIGGJDYsfgysh6WpE2vm3tNrfQhT42-mnwfS6-UCJNQnZace11IGWR_XKm6u_cL95AcQIrEAvZEo7mZaxYrPhXpXcW2cp5Z3OfZF/s320/demi_masa.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Bagaimana kau merasa bangga</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Akan dunia yang sementara</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Bagaimanakah bila semua hilang dan pergi</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Meninggalkan dirimu</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Bagaimanakah bila saatnya</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Waktu terhenti tak kau sadari</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Masikah ada jalan bagimu untuk kembali</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Mengulangkan masa lalu</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Dunia dipenuhi dengan hiasan</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Semua dan segala yang ada akan</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Kembali padaNya</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Bila waktu tlah memanggil</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Teman sejati hanyalah amal</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Bila waktu telah terhenti</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Teman sejati tingallah sepi</span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"></span> </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;">* wahai "<span style="color:#ffcc33;">bakal jenazah</span>",sudah bersediakah kamu utk bertemu dgn penciptamu? sudah cukupkah amal mu? sudah terlindungkah dirimu dari siksa azab yg menunggu? harta,anak2 dan segala di dunia akn ditinggalkan..dimana kamu bermula,tidak menjadi masalah..tapi di mana kamu berakhir...di persimpangan <span style="color:#33cc00;">SYURGA</span> atau <span style="color:#ff6600;">NERAKA..</span>nauzubillah..pilih lah dan berusahalah..dunia bukan pengakhir nya..kembalilah pada Nya..</span></div><div align="left"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"></span> </div><div align="left"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"></span> </div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-4521966514012276612010-12-03T11:49:00.007+08:002010-12-03T14:31:41.073+08:001st Week at Metropolitan City..<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWWJN-YhUelIlTyj4BpGtzoujA6p7OaZlnn8Mm2Zl7kiPcPsO5nkJPrtagacFD382GjFQtG4oF0KDsiifIl6eoSJS-3_Fx70OjhcIiaaGs9jPrryDDqUrEI2Z5dPqaA-TAqiEt8o2r-NI-/s1600/kuala_lumpur.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5546337447936261890" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 250px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 199px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWWJN-YhUelIlTyj4BpGtzoujA6p7OaZlnn8Mm2Zl7kiPcPsO5nkJPrtagacFD382GjFQtG4oF0KDsiifIl6eoSJS-3_Fx70OjhcIiaaGs9jPrryDDqUrEI2Z5dPqaA-TAqiEt8o2r-NI-/s320/kuala_lumpur.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6qnmU0frIakMF0FqsvC4V8w4styU5n1DDlSJI7-RaQOpKDSqpPK6JONoyGa4eiFH3fhNNY3Y14rRva35KOlPQwQrteB2dFdBLtqgtyAT4n0HFhkCxLhk2WCnt9CDBVN5DmUHgFxAKlNej/s1600/kuala_lumpur.jpg"></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><span style="font-family:Courier New;font-size:85%;">Bismillahirahmanirahim...</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:Courier New;font-size:85%;">Assalamualaikum...</span><br /></div><div><span style="font-family:Courier New;font-size:85%;">Alhamdullilah..I'm still breathing and given a chance to repent and seek for His blessing and love..I went to KL last sunday,being in my 1st rent house, living with <span style="color:#ff6666;">kidah</span> n <span style="color:#ff6666;">mash</span> at Taman Desa Keramat..My expression for 1st week in KL...subhanAllah,masyaAllah,Alhamdullilah,Nauzubillah...Allahuakbar..Ya Allah,please guide me and protect me from whisper of Satan and others things comes cross my ways to You..</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:Courier New;font-size:85%;">I'm attending the BeSt Programme at UniRAZAK..lovely place,people,lecturers and friends.. I'm making new friends within the new enviroment..actually its quite different..but I dont have any choices..This is my time to gain new experinces,learning and practicing..I'm a traveler in this world..</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:Courier New;font-size:85%;">Searching for new experinces,knowledges,people,cultures.. All this I do for the sake of Allah.. I'm a muslimah..I bring along the name of ISLAM..khadijah,please behave k..and take care of yourself carefully.. please,always remember if you keep on remembering Him,He will always remember you and help your way..love you Almighty..</span></div><br /><br /><div></div></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-11698352569373064972010-11-13T17:00:00.004+08:002010-11-13T18:03:47.190+08:00mujahadah melawan diri sendiri...(part 1)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLH-n94uBuCFCWhHzoS9yblBHRk4LL2N4hV3I0Rbls_j1-w-nJQK2_EpEN40wlvmXrEGMz9vY636Oko4ylPebpdsI1Vg-JlwC2KeTQL0qu8UhcDYL37-UZIldlqya4f91klDJVKnUBCmjx/s1600/sujud.bmp"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 250px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLH-n94uBuCFCWhHzoS9yblBHRk4LL2N4hV3I0Rbls_j1-w-nJQK2_EpEN40wlvmXrEGMz9vY636Oko4ylPebpdsI1Vg-JlwC2KeTQL0qu8UhcDYL37-UZIldlqya4f91klDJVKnUBCmjx/s320/sujud.bmp" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538972469055397010" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:courier new;">Bismillahirahmanirrahim..<br /><br />Alhamdullilah,diberi kesempatan menaip lagi..da lama x berbicara secara maya ni..semalam saya ada beli solusi,isu mujahadah melawan nafsu...terpana dan terketuk rasanya bila membaca isu ni..segala yg tertulis dlm isu ni sgt terkesan dihati saya..benar,nafsu adalah musuh yg kita cintai dan sgt berbahaya dari yg lain..kita selalu bersedia utk yg nyata tp kita terlupa yg ghaib,yg paling dekat dgn kita dan yg paling berbahaya.. itulah NAFSU..<br />apa tu nafsu?? itulah tmpt terkumpulnya segala kekuatan amarah dan syahwat(keinginan) dlm diri manusia..<br />Ulama tasawuf membahagikan nafsu kepada 4 peringkat :<br />a)<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"> Ammarah</span> - nafsu yg paling buruk dan hina..org yg bernafsu ammarah akn bersa bangga apabila melakukan kejahatan dan dosa..dia benci pada kebenaran dan kebaikan.<br /><br />b<span style="font-weight: bold;">)</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0); font-weight: bold;">Lawwamah</span> </span>- nafsu yg mencela..apabila seseorg yg bernafsu lawwamah melakukan kejahatan,dia akn berasa kesal dan berdosa.dia akn mencela diri.tapi ketika dia melakukan kejahatan tersebut,dia terleka dan tidak sedar. apabila dia melakukan kebaikan,mudah timbul rasa bangga dan riak dlm hatinya. mereka ini mudah ditegur cuma rapuh apabila digoda maksiat.<br /><br />c)<span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 0); font-weight: bold;">Mulhamah</span> - org ini sudah mula mendapat ilham utk melakukan kebaikan. ada bisikan utk dia terus berusaha gigih utk merubah keaadaan hatinya. dia tak mencari lg peluang utk melakukan kemungkaran.cuma ada masanya dia tak sengaja terlanjur melakukannya. dia akn cuba emnutup segala jalan ke arah maksiat dan berusaha mencari jalan utk perbaiki diri.. tapi,nafsu nya belum stabil.<br /><br />d)<span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 255); font-weight: bold;">mutmainnah</span>- kita akn mencapai tahap nafsu terbaik ini kesan drpd mujahadah dan riyadah al-nafs(latihan diri) secara istiqamah. hati akn menjadi sgt tenang kerana nafsu sudah berjaya dijinakkan.dia seronok melakukan ketaatan kepada Allah dan merasa indah apabila meninggalkan kejahatan.. apa sahaja ujian Allah diterima dgn redha dan sabar."wahai nafsu yg tenang, kembalilah kepada Tuhanmu dgn gembira dan menggembirakan" al- Fajr: 27<br /><br />* <span style="font-weight: bold;">dimanakah kita wahai sahabat/sahibah? di peringkat mana kah iman kita..saya da sedar dimana saya,dan saya akn sedaya mungkin akn memperbaikinya..ada kurg sebulan lg kita akn menjengah tahun baru hijrah, sama2 la kita selidiki iman yg terletak dihati..adakah kita menjadi tuan pada nafsu kita atau kita menjadi hamba pdnya..tepuk dada ty iman..moga keredhaan Nya sntsa bersama kita.. insyaAllah akn bertemu lagi..</span><br /><br /></span></span></span></span>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-34153239557752939052010-10-20T23:14:00.004+08:002010-10-20T23:33:38.075+08:00cahaya itu hampir dgn mu...<div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>subhanaAllah,walhamdullilah walailahaillallah..Allahuakbar,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>segala puji bagi Allah,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>tuhan yg mentadbir sekalian alam </em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>yang menjadikan bumi dan langit</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>dan yg memegang dan menetapkn hati-hati kita dalam iman..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em></em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>benar...cahaya itu hampir,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>terlalu hampir hingga kadang2 kita tak sedar,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>ia ada di dalam hati,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>namun ia terlindung dek dosa2 dan hitamnya hati,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>pabila hati itu kembali putih,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>nampak lah kamu akn cahaya itu..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>benar,ia sgt hampir...</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em></em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>sujud syukur dan terasa lapang dada saya,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>ketika melihat mata itu bergenang dgn mutiara jernih,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>menggambarkan masih ada sinar iman </em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>yang bersisa di hati,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>masih ada peluang dan kasih syg yang Allah sisipkan di hatinya..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>melihat wajah nya yg penuh dgn rs malu dan ingin berubah,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>bertambah kuat semangat saya utk membantu insan ini,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>bergetar suaranya menyatakan,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>runtuh egonya menyembah bumi,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>memohon ampun dr Illahi..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>akan ku bantumu wahai insan,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>sedaya mampu ku dgn izin Allah..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>hanya Allah yg dapat membantu mu dan daku,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>sesungguhnya Dia lah sebaik2 penolong,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>dan kepadaNya lah kamu dan saya berserah diri..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em></em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>wahai insan kerdil,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>jangan lah kamu bersusah hati,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>tuhan mu dan tuhan ku Maha Pengampun,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>kasih sygNya melimpah ruah utk hamba2Nya,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>kembali lah kamu kepadaNya dgn berlapang dada,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>sungguh Dia menantimu dgn rs cinta dan syg,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>kembalikan lah hakNya,kembali lah kamu kepadaNya,</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>moga kamu menjadi insan2 yg beruntung..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>cahaya itu dekat..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ff0000;"><em>carilah ia dgn mata hati..</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"><em>nescaya kamu akn dpat melihatnya</em></span>...</span></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-4148174112082913372010-10-13T00:07:00.002+08:002010-10-13T00:23:53.129+08:00IKATAN HATI...<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">bila adik tak mahu mendengar nasihat kita,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">bila anak degil dan melawan..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">mereka lebih rapat dgn kwn2 diluar,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">lebih banyak bersembang dan berkongsi..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kenapa semua ni berlaku?</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">apa yg sedang Allah sampaikan pada kita?</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">terfikirkah kita yg walaupun adik beradik atau anak beranak,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">ada ikatan dan pertalian darah..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">tapi wujudkah </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">IKATAN HATI</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> antara kita dan mereka???</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">bila hati tiada ikatan,hilang lah kemesraan antara kita,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">ada benar nya..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">tiada lah kepercayaan dan perkongsiaan,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">tiada bibit gurauan dan tiada keikhlasan,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">mgkin di sini salah kita sebagai kakak,abang,atau ibu ayah..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">terlupa membina ikatan hati antara kita,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kerana kita beranggapan ikatan hati itu sudah wujud..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">mereka yg bermasalah perlu didekati,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">dibimbing dan dikasihi,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">bukan ditinggalkan dan dihukum,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">ikatan hati akn terjalin bila kasih syg di'express'kan,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">sampaikan ia pd mereka,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">bina kepercayaan mereka,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">supaya mereka selesa utk berkongsi.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">adik,kakak minta maaf,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kakak akn cuba jadi kakak dan sahabat yg baik pd adik..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">insyaAllah,moga kita berdua jd penyejuk hati mak dan abah..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kakak sayang adik..</span></span></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-50974468785387691682010-10-10T22:32:00.003+08:002010-10-10T22:56:06.617+08:00bidadari dunia..kita kah itu?insyaAllah..=)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjValr9YYFjplTxGdUiOs6uQbcmY__yvy4oOqrNbV1SZvd1YvSYopm5jsLc9sDoxjTTtUII58HdDqZkGqv9pg0uYd3xRUHosYwnR3YlsRC9gZbMAqz3dxsRM507TlIu7KWEjekQJKPUTGa-/s1600/seindah+hiasan.bmp"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjValr9YYFjplTxGdUiOs6uQbcmY__yvy4oOqrNbV1SZvd1YvSYopm5jsLc9sDoxjTTtUII58HdDqZkGqv9pg0uYd3xRUHosYwnR3YlsRC9gZbMAqz3dxsRM507TlIu7KWEjekQJKPUTGa-/s320/seindah+hiasan.bmp" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5526430907353453538" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">wanita solehah </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">itu auratnya dijaga,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">pergaulan dipagari,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">sifat malu pengikat diri,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">seindah hiasan di dunia ini.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">keayuan </span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">wanita solehah</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> itu,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">tidak terletak pada kecantikan wajahnya,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kemanisan </span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">wanita solehah</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">tidak terletak pada kemanjaannya,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">daya penarik </span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">wanita solehah</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> itu,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">bukan pada kemanisan bicaranya yg mengoncang iman </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">para muslimin,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kepetahan </span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">wanita solehah</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">bukan pada barang kemas atau jelingan manjanya,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kecantikan </span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">wanita solehah</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> itu,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">terletak pada pengabdian yg tulus utk tuhannya,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kerendahan hatinya,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kebaikan akhlak dan kata-katanya,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">kebijaksanaannya terletak pada keyakinan </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">memperjuangankan agama yg dikasihinya.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">pelihara lah diri mu wahai </span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">wanita solehah</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">..</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">semoga kita dipilih menjadi bidadari dunia </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">dan sayap kiri perjuangan suami tercinta</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">demi agama yg benar.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >p/s: selamat berjuang mujahidah2 islam sekalian..</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >kredit to saudaraku yg ku sygi kerana Allah atas perkongsian artikel di atas..</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >Al-Faruqy..jazakillah..</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >ia diubah sedikit..=)</span></span></span></div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-32140813143311244152010-09-28T01:27:00.003+08:002010-09-28T01:50:22.036+08:003 idiots...<div style="text-align: center;">looks and sound can be so deceiving..</div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >3 idiots</span>..bunyi nya mcm tak menarik ja kan..</div><div style="text-align: center;">tp isi dalam cerita nya..</div><div style="text-align: center;">mantap dan penuh dgn warna warni..</div><div style="text-align: center;">menyentuh hati insan yg melihat dgn mata hati..</div><div style="text-align: center;">bibir tersenyum dan ketawa..</div><div style="text-align: center;">air mata mengalir kerna terharu,</div><div style="text-align: center;">hati terusik melihat nilai kasih dan syg..</div><div style="text-align: center;">x rugi menonton nya..</div><div style="text-align: center;">bukan seperti filem yg biasa..</div><div style="text-align: center;">ada nilai yg diterap..</div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >percaya pd Pencipta,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >percaya pd diri sendiri</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >nilai persahabatan</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >nilai dan kecintaan pada ilmu,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >genius,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;">team player</div><div style="text-align: center;">byk lagi..</div><div style="text-align: center;">thumbs up!!</div><div> </div>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-8005260908938189442010-09-23T16:28:00.000+08:002010-09-23T16:28:51.442+08:00bila rindu itu membisik<span style="color:#ff0000;">ya Allah..</span><br />bila rindu itu membisik,<br />aku <span style="color:#33ffff;">mohon perlindungan dari Mu,</span><br />kerana ia adalah bisikan yg mengajak aku lupa pada cinta Mu..<br /><br /><span style="color:#333333;"><span style="color:#ff0000;">ya Allah</span>,</span><br />bila rindu itu membisik,<br />halanglah hati ku utk melayaninya<br />kerana rindu itu bukan miliknya..<br /><span style="color:#33ffff;">rindu itu milik Mu..</span><br />mutlak,hy utk Mu..<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">ya Allah,</span><br />bila rindu itu membisik,<br />ingat kan lah aku tentang<span style="color:#00cccc;"> janji Mu,</span><br />sungguh Kau tak pernah jauh Ya Allah..<br /><br /><span style="color:#33ff33;">Terima kasih tuhanku...</span>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9177336195445439752.post-82691320897939210672010-09-11T00:51:00.002+08:002010-09-11T01:39:26.691+08:001 syawal= titik awal membina masa hadapan..<span style="font-family:arial;">Assalamualaikum..alhamdullilah,masih diberi kesempatan menaip isi hati ni...1 syawal menjelma lagi,Ramadhan melabuh tirainya..dan tarikh ini memberi makna dlm hidup saya kerana pd hari ni sy melepaskn masa lepas saya dgn lapang dada..Allah berbicara dgn sy..da lama sebenarnya..cm pg tadi hati sy dpt penjelasan yg sgtttt jelas...selama hari ni hati ini terase kehilangan sesuatu...rupa2 nya ia sgt merindui Tuhan nya...bukan cinta manusia yg dikejar...cinta atra insan hy wasilah..dan matlamat nya adalah <span style="color:#ff0000;">REDHA ALLAH... </span><span style="color:#000000;">itu jawapan pd persoalan2 sebelum ni..hari ini,langkah diteruskan dgn tabah bersama keyakinan dan kekuatan yg dipinjam dr Allah...saya sedar, masih byk ujian demi ujian yg akn mendatang dan masih panjang perjalanan nya..tp x pa..insyaAllah,saya akan mampu melaluinya..kepada Allah jua saya bergantung harap...</span></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">hati pernah bertanya...dia kah insan itu? jawapan nya tak pasti...so,kenapa mahu bersedih dan <span style="color:#000000;">menunggu</span> dia?? banyak sgt kah masa mu utk berfikir ttg yg ghaib? tak percaya kah kamu dgn janji tuhan mu?? kenapa berharap pd manusia sedangkan mereka pun berharap pd Pencipta kita??tak malu kah kamu menyerah cinta kpd bukan yg berhak?? tak malu kah kamu utk mengulangi kesilapan dahulu??? erk..terkedu lidah nk menjawab...benar,sakit pd awal nya..insyaAllah,lihat lah nant..kepahitan ini akn ditukar menjadi manis jika di sulam dgn rs redha,sabar dan bergantung penuh hy pd Allah.. </span><span style="font-family:courier new;color:#009900;"><strong>Allah tidak akan berbuat apa2 kepada insan yg berhajat mengubah hidupnya,hanya bila insan itu berusaha, maka Allah akn menurunkna pertolongan Nya..</strong></span><br /><span style="color:#009900;"> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', 'serif'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: MS" lang="EN"><strong>perbaiki diri mu,dan sentiasa lah berusaha utk menjadi hamba Allah yg bertaqwa dan memelihara iman..utamakan yg utama..tanggungjawab mu sebagai muslimah sejati,anak,kakak dan insan..biar kan kisah silam itu pergi..jgn di kenang lagi kerana yg telah pergi akn tetap pergi..hanya ketentuan Allah yg dpt menemukan kembali..kesusahan yg melanda pasti ada hikmah tersedia..la tahzan..Tuhan mu sgt adil dan Bijaksana..</strong></span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#000000;"><b><i><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', 'serif'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: MS" lang="EN">"Dengan nama Allah Yang Maha Pemurah Lagi Maha Mengasihani. Dan sesiapa yang bertaqwa kepada Allah (dengan mengerjakan suruhanNya dan meninggalkan laranganNya), nescaya akan dijadikan baginya jalan keluar (dari segala perkara yang menyusahkannya).</span></i></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', 'serif'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: MS" lang="EN"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#000000;"><b><i><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', 'serif'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: MS" lang="EN">Serta memberinya rezeki dari jalan yang tidak terlintas hatinya. Dan (ingatlah), sesiapa berserah diri bulat-bulat kepada Allah, maka Allah cukupkan baginya (untuk menolong dan menyelamatkannya). Sesungguhnya Allah tetap melakukan segala perkara yang di kehendakiNya. Allah telahpun menentukan kadar dan masa bagi berlakunya tiap-tiap sesuatu."</span></i></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', 'serif'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: MS" lang="EN"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', 'serif'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: MS" lang="EN"><span style="color:#000000;">(Ayat 2 & 3 Surah At-Talaq)</span></span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', 'serif'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: MS" lang="EN"><o:p></o:p></span></p></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;color:#000000;">percaya lah kamu dgn janji tuhanmu..</span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"><strong></strong></span>Ija_Imanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15114625541943902353noreply@blogger.com0